Walking Points
  • Home
  • Welcome
  • Every Sphere Blog
  • Marks of...
    • Subscribe
  • Podcast
  • Southside Men
    • Southside's Men's Leadership
  • Study Center
  • Bookstore

Becoming Faithful Men

2/6/2016

0 Comments

 
Picture
I just started reading Gene Getz’s book, The Measure of a Man: 20 Attributes of A Godly Man. I immediately thought that this is something I would love to share with the men of our church family. As book after book (as well as human experience) seem to remind us, boys are rapidly growing up in this world without learning what it means to be a man… even fewer understand what it means to be a godly man. Too many are having to make it up on the fly… with disastrous results.
 
Therefore, I thought I would share some of the insights I’m gleaning from the book and pass them on to you, with a few extra items I hope will be a blessing to you. 
 
Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. (Philippians 3:12)

 The first chapter of the book is a broad overview of everything Getz will be looking at throughout the rest of the book. The chapter is entitled, “Becoming Faithful Men.”  That’s a key topic as well as an important title. You see, we aren’t born faithful. Just the opposite, in fact. We are born fallen in sin, broken, and far from God. If we’re blessed to be born and raised in a Christian family, we may come to know God earlier in our lives. However, regardless of our background, growing in our faith is a lifelong pursuit. As you can imagine, if our goal is "Christ-likeness,” then we all have a LONG way to go! So I like the word “becoming”, because it highlights the idea of process… not product. We are works in progress (superintended by God himself (Philippians 1:6), and our goal is to continue moving in a Christward direction throughout the course of our entire life.

 The word becoming also emphasizes focus and intentionality. No one grows into a godly man by accident. It happens on purpose or it doesn’t happen at all. Philippians 3:12 captures this idea. The Apostle Paul is laboring and straining to reach the goal of maturity in Christ (i.e., godliness or holiness). It’s an everyday and “on purpose” process that requires nothing less than God’s Spirit working in and through us to give us the will, strength, and direction to grow in grace. We won’t grow in our faith apart from the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives, and yet, the Holy Spirit won’t do the work for us. We have to participate in the process.

 Finally, Getz uses the word “Faithful” to describe the kind of man he has in mind. Then, borrowing from 1 Timothy and Titus, Getz puts together a list of what we might call the marks of spiritually mature (godly) manhood. Here’s his list…
 
  • a good reputation
  • maintaining moral purity
  • balance in words and actions
  • being wise and humble
  • serving as a good role model
  • demonstrating unselfishness and generosity
  • communicating sensitively in a non-threatening and non-defensive manner
  • not being addicted to substances
  • not being a self-centered and controlling personality
  • void of anger that becomes sinful
  • not an abusive person
  • non-argumentative and non-divisive
  • a sensitive, loving and kind person
  • non-materialistic
  • a good husband and father
  • a good testimony to unbelievers
  • pursuing godly activities
  • wise, discerning, non-prejudiced, and fair
  • holy and righteous
  • not a new Christian

Can anyone read that list and declare they’ve already arrived? Anyone doing perfectly with this list?

 Over the weeks to come I hope to look at each one of these headings and offer some thoughts and reflections from Scripture regarding what these characteristics might look like in our lives and how we might, in Paul’s words, “obtain them.”

To close this post, I want to share this prayer from Ken Boa…
 
Faithful Father, as I reflect on the redemptive history recorded in the narratives and oracles of Scripture, I see so many surprising setbacks and breakthroughs. The wisdom of Your Word invites me to view events and circumstances with a long-term perspective. When I only look at the short-term, I get muddled, confused and doubtful, because I allow my immediate circumstances to shape my understanding. But when I contextualize the events of my life in the long-term, I can see that You are indeed causing all things to work together for good to those who love You and are called according to Your purpose. Teach me to affirm that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory that is to be revealed to Your children in Christ.

Your Brother in Christ,
Dale

0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    Categories

    All
    100 Godly Men
    Anger
    Apologetics
    Baxter's Directory
    Bible Studies
    Biography
    Books
    Boyhood
    Burning Heart
    Calling
    Catechesis
    Character
    Children
    Christ & Culture
    Christian Influence
    Christianity
    Christian Living
    Church
    Communication
    C.S. Lewis
    Culture
    Devotional & Encouragement
    Devotional Life
    Discipleship
    Doctrine
    Eternal Life
    Evangelicalism
    Evangelism
    Faithfulness
    Family
    Fatherhood
    Glorifying God
    Godliness
    Godly Manhood
    God's Love
    Good Reads For Kingdom Minded Men
    Gospel
    Heidelberg Catechism
    Holiness
    How To Be A Real Man
    Humility
    Husband
    Jesus Christ
    Justification
    Kingdom Discipleship
    Kingdom Man
    Kingdom Of God
    Kingdom Quotes
    Knowing God
    Library
    Manhood
    Man In The Mirror
    Marriage
    Mediocrity
    Men
    Men's Ministry
    Men's Studies
    Mentoring
    Mercy
    Micah Mandate
    Missions
    My Book
    Obedience
    Parenting
    Peace
    Poetry
    Poverty
    Prayer
    Prayer Journal
    Prayers
    Puritans
    Purpose
    Reading
    Rest
    Restoration
    Revelation
    Richard Baxter
    Right Path Devotions
    Salt And Light
    Salvation
    Sanctification
    Satan
    Savior
    Screwtape Letters
    Sin
    Small Groups
    Social Justice
    Sons
    Southside United Methodist Church
    Spiritual Growth
    St. Patrick
    Study
    Success
    Thanksgiving
    Theology
    Theology For Men
    Truth
    Vlog
    Vocation
    Walking Points Podcast
    Wisdom
    Witness
    Work
    Worldview


    Archives

    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    January 2017
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    September 2015
    August 2015


    RSS Feed

Dale Tedder.com

Let's Connect

  • Home
  • Welcome
  • Every Sphere Blog
  • Marks of...
    • Subscribe
  • Podcast
  • Southside Men
    • Southside's Men's Leadership
  • Study Center
  • Bookstore
✕